Affirming and Inclusive Books
Sections include books for children, middle school, YA, and adults.
Search below to find affirming memoirs, religious books, graphic novels, poetry, or picture books for your own library or for gifts. Support affirming authors.

Multicultural, Affirming, and Inclusive Books:
Children
These titles are in no particular order. I encourage you to find a book your family hasn't read yet and give it a try. These inclusive books have all been either read by me or personally recommended by someone I know. Some are affirming and celebrate the diversity of the LGBTQ+ community. Some celebrate cultural diversity and include books about holidays of many cultures or amplify the voices of authors who are Black, Indigenous, Asian, or Latinx. Some include characters with autism, Down syndrome, or deafness. Others celebrate inclusivity and diversity by reminding us that all people in our communities are worthy of love and respect and that we are better together.
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The links all go to either Bookshop.org (an organization that works with Indie bookstores) or Barnes & Noble unless Amazon is the only seller I could find. I hope you support local and Indie bookstores when you purchase the books.
LGBTQ+ Affirming
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Joy to the World by Kai Shappley and Lisa Bunker
I am Perfectly Designed by Karamo Brown
I See the Moon and the Moon Sees Me by Cassie Brooks
10,000 Dresses by Marcus Ewert
A is for Activist by Innosanto Nagara
Blue by Nana Ekua Brew-Hammond and Daniel Minter
Every Body is a Rainbow by Caroline PsyD Carter and Mathias Ball
It Feels Good to Be Yourself: A Book about Gender Identity by
Theresa Thorn (Author)/ Noah Grigni (Illustrator)
Adopting My Two Dads by Luca Panzini
The Meaning of Pride by Rosiee Thor and Sam Kirk
ABC of Gender Identity by Devika Dalal
The Rainbow Sheep by David Hayward
When God Made You by Matthew Paul Turner
When God Made Lights by Matthew Paul Turner
You Will Always Belong by Matthew Paul Turner
Every Body is a Rainbow: A Kid's Guide to Bodies Across the Gender
Grandad's Pride (A Grandad's Camper LGBTQ Pride Book for Kids in partnership with GLAAD) by Harry Woodgate
Spectrum: A Kid's Guide to Bodies Across the Gender Spectrum: A Kid's Guide to Bodies Across the Gender Spectrum by Caroline Carter
And Tango Makes Three by Justin Richardson and Peter Parnell
Multicultural/Inclusive
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Amanda Gorman by Maria Isabel Sánchez Vegara and Queenbe Monyei
Families by Susan Kuklin
ABC: A Family Alphabet Book by Bobbie Combs
The Mommy Book by Todd Parr
The Adventures of Little Miss Crazy Hair: The Girl with Curl by Christopher Garcia-Halenar and Alejandro Garcia-Halenar
Bare Tree and Little Wind by Mitali Perkins and Khoa Le
Bright Brown Baby by Andrea Davis Pinkney and Brian Pinkney
Best Best Colors: Los Mejores Colores by Eric Hoffman
Free at Last by Sojourner Kincaid Rolle and Alex Bostic
Good Dream Dragon by Jacky Davis and Courtney Dawson
A Boy Named Isamu by James Yang
A Day for Rememberin’ by Leah Henderson and Floyd Cooper
Cookies and Cake & The Families We Make by Jennifer L. Egan
This Day in June by Gayle E. Pitman
The Different Dragon by Jennifer Bryan
Stacey's Remarkable Books by Stacey Abrams
​Mr. Maple: A Guide Dog's Journey by Paul Castle
Our Heroes: Black History Month by Ariana Brown
Binny's Diwali by Thrity Umriga
Lights, Camera, Diwali! by Amita Roy Shah
Welcome Ramadan by Sara Sarfraz
The Night Before Eid: A Muslim Family Story by Aya Khalil
The Arabic Quilt: An Immigrant Story by Aya Khalil
The Girl Who Thought in Pictures: The Story of Dr. Temple Grandin by Julia Finley Mosca
How to Build a Hug: Temple Grandin and Her Amazing Squeeze Machine by Amy Guglielmo and Jacqueline Tourville
You Are Enough: A Book About Inclusion by Sofia Sanchez and
Margaret O'Hair
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Multicultural, Affirming and Inclusive Books:
Middle School
Hurricane Child by Kacen Callender
Zenobia July by Lisa Bunker
The Best at It by Maulik Pancholy
One True Way by Shannon Hitchcock
In the Role of Brie Hutchens… by Nicole Melleby
Obie is Man Enough by Schuyler Bailar
Gracefully Grayson by Ami Polonsky
A Smart Girl's Guide: Body Image Book by American Girl (includes resources for transgender youth, as well as language about pronouns and gender identity)
Somewhere Beyond the Sea by T. J. Klune (part of series)
Too Bright to See by Kyle Lukoff
​A Home for Goddesses and Dogs by Leslie Connor
Being a Super Trans Ally! :A Creative Workbook and Journal for Young People by Phoenix Schneider and Sherry Paris
Martin McLean, Middle School Queen by Alyssa Zaczek
​The Girl from the Sea: A Graphic Novel by Molly Knox Ostertag
Melissa (previously published as GEORGE) by Alex Gino
Almost Flying by Jake Maia Arlow
Alan Cole Doesn't Dance by Eric Bell
I Am Not a Label: 34 Disabled Artists, Thinkers, Athletes and Activists from Past and Present by Cerrie Burnell
El Deafo: A Graphic Novel by Cece Bell
Affirming Books:
Novels—YA
and Adult
This is How it Always Is by Laurie Frankel
​Bed and Breakup by Susie Dumond
Queerly Beloved by Susie Dumond
The Other March Sisters by Linda Epstein, Ally Malinenko, Liz Parker
Witches of Honeysuckle House by Liz Parker
The Charm Offensive by Alison Cochrun
Peppermint Bark, No Bite by Bailey Seaborn
The Cinnamon Bun Bookstore by Laurie Gilmore
Felix Ever After by Kacen Callender (YA)
Invisible Life: A Novel by E. Lynn Harris
Just As I Am: A Novel by E. Lynn Harris
The Prophets by Robert Jones, Jr.
Epiphany (part of a series) by Rashid Darden
I Am Not Your Perfect Mexican Daughter by Erika L. Sánchez (YA)
The Lilac People: A Novel by Milo Todd
Chaser: A Jinx Ballou Novel by Dharma Kelleher (first book of a series)
Iron Goddess: A Shea Stevens Thriller by Dharma Kelleher (first book of a series)
A Conspiracy of Ravens: An Avery Byrne Crime Thriller by Dharma Kelleher (first book of a series)​​
Red, White and Royal Blue by Casey McQuiston
One Last Stop by Casey McQuiston
I Kissed Shara Wheeler by Casey McQuiston
Maurice by E M Forster
The Price of Salt, or Carol by Patricia Highsmith
A Single Man by Christopher Isherwood
Angels in America: A Gay Fantasia on National Themes by Professor Tony Kushner (a play)
After Delores by Sarah Schulman
Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit by Jeanette Winterson
Light From Uncommon Stars by Ryka Aoki (science fiction)
Pizza Girl by Jean Kyoung Frazier
The House in the Cerulean Sea by Tj Klune
Affirming and Inclusive Parenting Books
Parenting Transgender Children by Janet Gattis Duke (Author), Shailagh Clarke Ph.D. (Contributor), Jennifer Lea Gamewell LPC (Contributor)
LGBTQ Family Building: A Guide for Prospective Parents By Abbie Goldberg
Raising Kids beyond the Binary: Celebrating God's Transgender and Gender-Diverse Children by Jamie Bruesehoff
Unconditional: A Guide to Loving and Supporting Your LGBTQ Child
By Telaina Eriksen
How We Sleep At Night: A Mother's Memoir by Sara Cunningham
Who's Your Daddy?: And Other Writings on Queer Parenting by Rachel Epstein
And Baby Makes More by Susan Goldberg
Never a Girl, Always a Boy: A Family Memoir of a Transgender Journey by Jo Ivester
Raising Kids beyond the Binary: Celebrating God's Transgender and Gender-Diverse Children by Jamie Bruesehoff
Becoming Nicole by Amy Ellis Nutt
Found in Transition: A Mother's Evolution during Her Child's Gender Change by Paria Hassouri MD
The Me I Was Made to Be: Helping Christian Parents Navigate the Identity Conversation by Christie Penner Worden
This Is a Book for Parents of Gay Kids: A Question & Answer Guide to Everyday Life by Dan Owens-Reid and Kristin Russo
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Affirming and Inclusive Science/History/
Nonfiction Books including Memoirs
It Rhymes With Takei by George Takei and Steven Scott (memoir)
Tomorrow Will Be Different: Love, Loss, and the Fight for Trans Equality by Sarah McBride (memoir)
Evolution's Rainbow: Diversity, Gender, and Sexuality in Nature and People by Joan Roughgarden
Young Queer America: Real Stories and Faces of LGBTQ+ Youth by Maxwell Poth
Sister Outsider: Essays and Speeches by Audre Lorde
​Hunger: A Memoir of (My) Body by Roxane Gay
​Bad Feminist [Tenth Anniversary Limited Collector's Edition]: Essays
by Roxane Gay
​Stonewall: The Definitive Story of the LGBTQ Rights Uprising that Changed America by Martin Duberman
Visual Thinking: The Hidden Gifts of People Who Think in Pictures, Patterns, and Abstractions by Temple Grandin PhD
The Way I See It: A Personal Look at Autism by Temple Grandin
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Multicultural Poetry Books
Brown Girl Dreaming by Jacqueline Woodson
The Black Unicorn by Audre Lorde
Selected Poems by Gwendolyn Brooks
The New Book: Poems, Letters, Blurbs, and Things by Nikki Giovanni
Postcolonial Love Poem (Pulitzer Prize Winner) by Natalie Diaz
We Are Owed. by Ariana Brown
Algarabía: The Song of Cenex, Natural Son of the Isle Alarabíyya / La canción de Cenex, hijo natural de la Ínsula Alarabíyya by Roque Raquel Salas Rivera
Time: Essays, Poems, Short Fiction, & More by Rashid Darden
The Perseverance by Raymond Antrobus
LGBTQ+ Poems (Part 1)- Queer Constellations, A Mosaic of Love Beyond the Binary Where the Rainbow Bends, Pride Resilience Poetry
by Danielle Flux
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LGBTQ+ Affirming Books:
Religious/Spiritual
Transforming: Updated and Expanded Edition with Study Guide:
The Bible and the Lives of Transgender Christians by Austen Hartke
Beyond a Binary God: A Theology for Trans* Allies by Tara K Soughers
Walking the Bridgeless Canyon: Repairing the Breach between the Church and the LGBTQ Community by Kathy Baldock
Called Out: 100 Devotions for LGBTQ Christians by E. Carrington Heath
Queerfully and Wonderfully Made :A Guide for LGBTQ+ Christian Teens
edited by Leigh Finke
Raising Kids beyond the Binary: Celebrating God's Transgender and Gender-Diverse Children by Jamie Bruesehoff
Heart of God's Word by Chris Pepple
Because I Love by Chris Pepple
A Bigger Table by John Pavlovitz
If God is Love, Don't Be a Jerk by John Pavlovitz
UnClobber by Colby Martin
Trans-Forming Proclamation: A Transgender Theology of Daring Existence by Liam Hooper
Changing Our Mind: Definitive 3rd Edition of the Landmark Call for Inclusion of LGBTQ Christians with Response to Critics by David P Gushee
Black, Gay, British, Christian, Queer: Church and the Famine of Grace by Jarel Robinson-Brown
Family of Origin, Family of Choice: Stories of Queer Christians by Katie Hays and Susan A. Chiasson
Reaching for Hope: Strategies and Support for the Partners of Transgender People by Suzanne DeWitt Hall
Holy Censorship or Mistranslation? Love, Gender and Sexuality in the Bible by Renato Lings
Queer & Christian: Reclaiming the Bible, Our Faith, and Our Place at the Table by Brandon Robertson
God Didn't Make Us to Hate Us: 40 Devotions to Liberate Your Faith from Fear and Reconnect with Joy by Rev. Lizzie McManus-Dail
Welcoming and Affirming: A Guide to Supporting and Working with LGBTQ+ Christian Youth edited by Leigh Finke
The Biblical Case in Support of Same-Sex Relationships (Revised and Expanded) by Matthew Vines
God and the Gay Christian: The Biblical Case in Support of Same-Sex Relationships (Revised and Expanded) by Matthew Vines
Made in God’s Image: A Fresh Perspective on Gender Difference
by Rev. Cedric A. Harmon & Ann Thompson Cook
Holy Love: A Biblical Theology for Human Sexuality by Steve Harper
Incompatible by Charlie Baber


